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Article Title:	Fallen Worship Leader
Author of reported comment:	Mary
Comment Date:	02:38 on Jan 24 2009
Comment:	My Christian husband, youth leader, Sunday School teacher, Bible College Student, had an affair many years ago. Our marriage almost was lost, but he asked me to forgive him and I did....It was a horrible!! time in our lives and those who loved us, but we made it! Our marriage is strong now. I trust him, he is thankful he stayed married to me. I have done my part to be a godly woman and mother, yet be sexy for him. I learned to be what he needs me to be. I exercise and eat right to keep my figure. I feel good about myself..I want to have fun as I get older. I am not saying that this is a reason (or excuse) for a man to have an affair, but men (even Christian men) need lots of sex...it's the way God made them and Christian women sometimes think they have to be anti-sex to be "godly". I learned how wrong I was. Now we go to church and worship together, raise our kids and walk in the Word, etc. and have great sex...neither one of us needs to look elsewhere for our physical needs or self-worth. We appreciate each other and tell each other constantly. We just love to be together. The "hell on earth" I experienced after his affair has been replaced with "heaven on earth". By God's grace, we will be together til Jesus calls us home. By the way, we use Terry's music when we lead at our church. I play the piano and sing while my husband, leads in worship. I look forward to the day I hear Terry and his wife have gone on their "second honeymoon" and the healing process is continuing to strengthen them both.

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