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Article Title:	Fallen Worship Leader
Author of reported comment:	Tammy
Comment Date:	07:47 on Oct 17 2008
Comment:	Dear Greta, I have been married for over 20 years and in May of this year, I separated from my husband. I used the song "You're my Glory and the Lifter of My Head" many tearful nights to see me through. Isn't life funny that while I am using this song to get through my own marriage breakup Terry is having an affair and your marriage is breaking down at the same time. My heart was so sad at my loss and at night I would play this CD over and over and think, wow, I bet it would be wonderful to be married to a man like this, someone so sensitive to the Holy Spirit he must be an awesome husband. Well, I have to say if I speak the truth in my heart I am very disappointed and very angry at Terry. Yes, we all fail that's a fact but what makes me so angry and what I find most disappointing is that he has chosen to walk away from the counseling and the reconciliation process according to Greta's statement above. My husband also opted out of the reconciliation and counseling process choosing to do his own thing and go his own way. Everyone has been busy praying for Terry and God has answered those prayers because it certainly seems Greta is more than willing to forgive him as she is trying to reconcile despite his marital unfaithfulness. That's mercy Terry, that's grace, that's undeserved. That's answered prayer. What has Terry done with that mercy extended him? What has Terry done with the heart of his wife who was willing to stay the course? I will be praying for you Greta as you have to face the heart pain and the emotional pain of such rejection. God will be there for us to be our husband and to romance us and to love us when we feel so unlovable. God bless you as he keeps you in his provision and care, the Faithful One.

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