Jeff Short chats to renowned philosopher, sociologist and theologian, Elaine Storkey to explore the lives of courageous women from the Bible who stood up for what they believed even if it meant going against their culture or social expectations.
Jeff: Elaine Storkey has a book out which talks about Women in
a Patriarchal World. It's lovely to have you on the program. It's
about 35 years ago that I was reading a book called What's Right with
Feminism, plagiarising it for a dodgy 2,1 at Bristol University.
Elaine: Well done!
Jeff: I
did actually give credit where credit was due. Looking back over that,
is the landscape different 35 years on when you were talking about
feminist issues then and 28 years on the synod of the Church of
England. Have you seen change?
Elaine:
Enormously. The things I was writing about in that book have either
all come to pass or we're facing a completely different climate now.
Then I was looking at feminism and the different types of feminism. I
didn't get any where near where feminism is today, which is really
kind of split. But the issues are different too. Women have moved into
professional areas; they have moved into equal pay and a whole range
of areas, although still held behind. Even when you look at the pay of
women and men today in some professions they are not equal but there
is certainly lots of catching up. What I didn't do in that book which
I have had to do over and over again since then is look at the level
of violence towards women in society as a whole and the kind of
talking down and demeaning but also gender warfare. And transgender
just didn't even feature 35 years ago. We weren't bothered about that
and transgender issues effectively split the feminist movement and
split LGBT movements. So the landscape is quite different. The public
face is different; there are more people who think they know the
issues than they did before, more people have fought for the issues.
But actually women have also lost a lot in the meantime. Women wanted
to be different, not be the same as men, not to be counted as men and
classified as men but to be different, to be themselves but equal. I
think we haven't got there yet.
Jeff: I'm so
pleased you said that because as an interested bystander in many ways
there are times when I've thought if there were more women at the top
table that would become a nicer place to be. But I think sometimes
just to get there they have to compete and take on the less attractive
facets of maleness.
Elaine: Yes, and that's
exactly what happened. It's happened in politics, it's happened across
the board really. Women pioneers have got to be pretty gutsy people
and some of them are quite hard. I think what we're finding now is
that women who are coming into those professions there is more space
for them to be themselves, to have their own voices, to decide
actually I don't want to be like that; I don't want to facilitate an
old-fashioned male norm that isn't good for men anyway.
Jeff: Domestic violence: do you get a sense, or pick up
anecdotes or do you have evidence that the pandemic has accentuated
that?
Elaine: It definitely has. We have
evidence, we have statistics. Femicide, women being killed by their
partner or former partner or sometimes their husband, has grown during
the lockdown particularly. At the moment we have more than two women
every week who are killed by a partner in the UK, which is a
staggering statistic when you think about it. That's part of domestic
violence; it's not all of it. There are lots of other forms of
domestic abuse that don't get to femicide, that don't get to murder.
But that figure is striking. Of course, we have to be absolutely fair
and say domestic violence and domestic abuse operates on both sides.
There are male victims of domestic abuse also. Sometimes it's violence
sometimes it's vicious. It can be horrible for men and they often have
no where to go whereas women do have shelters and women's aid and
refuge, there are lots of organizations fighting for women, very few
for men. We mustn't underestimate that but by and large, statistically
the weight is the other way round. When it comes to deaths, women are
usually killed by the men that were abusing them. When men are killed
it is usually by the women they are abusing as a kind of last stand,
trying to protect themselves. So again, even that is transfigured in
different ways. But domestic violence is a scourge of our country; the
level of abuse that goes on behind closed doors, that nobody knows
about because everybody tries to pretend happy families until it's
almost too late to carry on the pretence. The most dangerous part of
domestic violence for a woman is when she tries to leave because then
a very vindictive guy will do everything he can to punish her and that
might end up in her death.
Jeff: Again, the misery
that can be caused by financial abuse where a woman has to beg of a
man just for feminine hygiene products, which I have come across. The
abuse where somebody feels absolutely worthless, the verbal abuse so
they can't lift their head and they think they deserve everything
that's coming. It's got so many bitter fruits this tree, hasn't
it?
Elaine: And with all of those, where does
that leave a woman in the long term? A lot of people say to me well,
women can leave. But when you've been run down for years, when you've
been belittled and undermined; when you've been deprived of your own
voice and money and so on you've got no self-confidence. Where would a
woman like that go to? How would she go? She's even afraid of seeking
help. Very often she's tried to get help, sometimes even, I have to
say, from the church and she's been told to go back and be a better
wife or forgive the man, or whatever. Really unhelpful advice. So
women are left in a terrible situation where it's almost impossible
for them to leave the abusive relationship until the crunch comes and
they have to go.
Jeff: I worried when there were
adverts on the television saying if you're a victim call this number
or do this. My little silent prayer was please don't let there be some
very angry man there who says don't you dare and raises a fist. You're
trying to help but it doesn't always work.
Elaine: And guys can tap their phones so they know when they're
making phone calls. I've invited someone into my house to make a phone
call from my own phone in the past because there's no other way of
doing it. The level of control for the perpetrator of domestic abuse
can reach almost totality. It can be so intense that it's very
difficult to escape from it.
Jeff: We could talk a
long while on that, maybe we could get you back and we'll talk a bit
more about it. But you've a wonderful book out about Women in a
Patriarchal World, empowering stories from the Bible. There may be
some ladies who think the church and faith is not the natural
environment for them, that it's been a sort of patriarchal safari park
for men.
Elaine: You can understand that. For
centuries women have been the ones who have backed up the leadership
in the church. They've done an awful lot of the work, let's face it,
but they've had no authority and no clout. That's changed; there are
women ministers, women bible teachers, women who are running
theological seminaries and all kinds of things. Women do have a place
in the authority structures of the church now and that's fantastic.
But actually, in a very real sense, we need to go back further than
the church. We do need to look at what the biblical text says and I
was concerned, and this is the reason I wrote it really, that an awful
lot of women, feminists and I would class myself as a feminist are
very anti-Christian because they say it's all there in the biblical
text. The text talks down to women, it pardons men who are doing
horrible things to women and it has two rules: one for men and one for
women. And I thought let's look at those stories and see if that's
true. Of course the bible was written into patriarchal societies; the
whole history of society is patriarchal, whichever society you're
looking at, so you'd expect texts that had been written thousands of
years ago to reflect that. But they are startlingly radical with
regard to women and I found that over and over again when you're
looking at the stories of specific women, both in the Hebrew
scriptures in the Old Testament and of course especially in the New
Testament. I wanted to share it with people because it is such a
wonderful revelation when you've come across some of these spunky
women who in very patriarchal times it's something different.
Jeff: You've picked out 25 and some of them are quite
startling; very often they are overturning the norm. You also have
people who are in places of honour, Deborah for instance.
Elaine: The other thing I found out, women often work
together in cohorts to achieve a really great result. We think of the
story of Moses in the bull-rushes but actually it was three women -
Moses' mother Jochabed, his sister Miriam and Bithiah the princess who
worked together and rescued Moses. Telling the story from each of
their angles - what was it like for the mother, the sister, the
princess and what aim did they have? It's because they were all women
and women don't want to see little babies drowned in the Nile there's
something deeply horrible about that. And they were able to allow
their feelings, their emotions and their ethics and morality to
overcome the situation and the ghastly Pharaoh and rescue at least one
baby boy. They have no power against the Pharaoh, not even his
daughter, but they could work together to make sure they got a good
result.
Jeff: I'm tempted to say someone picking
the book up would find someone themselves or someone like them in
there.
Elaine: Thank you. Jeff. I think so too.
And at the end of every chapter, I want to say and what does that say
to us today? Are there parallels in our lives today? There's the story
of Rahab who's a prostitute; she hides the spies coming to Israel
because even though she is not an Israelite, she knows that God is
doing something important in the land of Israel and they are pagans.
Then you ask the question why is prostitution not condemned here? We
need to ask questions today like what should our attitude be to women
in prostitution. Why are they in prostitution? Very often they're in
prostitution because they're trapped; they come from backgrounds where
they end up having very little alternative in terms of skills. But
also they often come from an abusive background, a background where
they've been ground down. It changes your attitude towards people when
you read these stories because of what the bible text is saying and it
speaks into our own situation. Very often when you read these stories
you think how would I have coped and what is going on in our society
and our lives that is similar? How do I cope? I think these are good
lessons for us to learn.
Jeff: When I think of
Rahab I have to think if we had Jesus on Who Do You Think You Are and
we trace his family tree and say your great, great, great, great,
great, great grandmother was a prostitute. And the foreign woman Ruth
features in the family tree of Jesus. You finish with two women who
have fallen out at the end so it's not as though you totally
glamourise it.
Elaine: We have to end on a note
of reality; not everything goes right.
Jeff: If
you could have been any one of the 24, I'll take Mary off the
table....
Elaine: I think there were 30 women
and 25 stories. If I could be any one of them, gosh! I think I would
like to have been one of the Hebrew midwives who put two fingers up to
Pharaoh and said shove off! We're going to deliver these babies no
matter what you think.
Jeff: I'd encourage people
to get your book, Women in a Patriarchal World because there is so
much in it. It's so encouraging and shamefully I'm thinking who the
heck was Huldah?
Elaine: Isn't that interesting? We don't know about Huldah.
There isn't a book of the bible named after her but she's the prophet
that the king goes to interpret the book of the law. She's got a
horrible task because she's got to tell him they're all heading for
destruction. It can't have been easy.
Jeff: But
the position that she had they listen and take that as an authentic
word. In the press release it says, 'Featured in the book rebellion,
love, collaboration, faith, determination, the need for justice,
wisdom, prophecy, risk-taking, prompt action, foresight, intelligence,
trust, boldness, persistence, generosity, humility, hospitality and
bravery in situations - bereavement, loss of a child, long term
illness, widowhood, childlessness, persecution, threats of death' and
you say these women were called by God to respond in the place where
they belonged and it's the same for us facing our own challenges.
You've put isolation which could be lockdown but apart from the lack
of football in the stadium you've got everything there for
today.
Elaine: I think you're very right, more perceptive than I was.
Thank you, Jeff.